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    Greetings to you- those of you who take the time to read this. I believe it's probably good form to keep it short- I'll try.

    By way of introductions, I am an east coast American. Getting long in the tooth; 55 next birthday. Lately thinking about retirement happens often. The federal gov, my employer for the last 35 yrs, will allow me to retire within the next year. With my rusty bonz and all the 'joy' that comes with rolling out of bed at 5am most days, I must admit giving that up sounds mighty interesting.

    I decided to give this section of the forum a go. The aches and pains from various sources combine into an orchestra of general chronic pain. That seems the most fitting zone to describe what's wrong with me physically.

    I've read through quite a few posts on several areas and this group 'gets it'. Persons here know that along with our physical challenges- our emotional well being suffers as we try to get back to our normal life. Hey, I'm 54 and my normal life was. I know it's not coming back. Some of you- especially the young folks have plenty of room to be optimistic and hopeful!

    I offer my ear and the understanding that we have gained through our shared experience. Some who come here sound so compassionate, others a bit desperate. I have certainly felt desperate; feeling very lonely. It wasn't that long ago. I could have used a place like this.

    So greetings fellow travelers. I'll be here reading and listening. Maybe the ocassional response. I'm not one for facebook or twitter. This forum is as social as I dare be. I'm looking forward to making some new friends....if you'll have me.
    Last edited by RustyBonz; 05-01-2012, 01:55 PM. Reason: spelling

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    Hello Rusty Bonz, I am GING from another forum ( aneurysm) but I want to welcome you. I am sure you will find many new friends here and great support, since I am " long in the tooth" as well, I understand about how a group of different health issues can put you in very painful situations. Again, welcome, and I am sure others will come by to say hello, you are not alone !

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      #3
      Welcome to the group!
      Kate
      Constant headache for 10 years and other chronic health issues

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        #4
        welcome to BT, rusty!

        being a nosy person and long-time member here, i noticed your name and your post. i don't usually post here, although i have on occasion. i'll put my opinion anywhere .

        i hope you find your stay here pleasant and you become a little bit more of a "socialist"...

        happy landings,
        jeannie
        WE ARE BT!
        "The world is a better place when you're barefoot." Mark
        "Don't go there unless you know the way back." TC
        "...there will be an answer. Let it be." Paul McCartney

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          #5
          Hey Rusty! Welcome, I hope you do stick around. Everyone here is pretty wonderful as I am sure you have seen and feel free to pop around to the rest of BT while you are here.

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            #6
            Thanks guys. Its off to work for me. I dream about retiring. I dont fear it anymore than I dread sleeping late on the weekends... (sarcasm) Im ready Freddie- but not today for I must take my meds, drink a few cups of coffee while I watch about two hours fly by in the morning, going from what should be early....passing on time, and winding up kinda late seemingly no matter how hard I try. My rusty bonz have a tempo all of their own! Good day all

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              #7
              welcome to BT Rusty. if you're feeling old @ 54 then I'm over the hill for sure.

              do you have any plans for what to do with your life once you retire?(other than spend hours right here on BT that is)

              look forward to getting to know you.

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                #8
                Hello Rusty, Welcome to BT. Everyone here is so great!
                Lorraine (lor)

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                  #9
                  Rustybonz welcome to this site. I hope you find the support and info you need. Chronic pain impacts so much of our life that we really can't separate the pain from what we do each day. I know 55 seems early for retirement but for some of us it is forced on us even sooner, I was forced to retire at 48. The thing I have found is my days don't drag on because so much of my day is dealing with my pain. I focus on one day at a time so the pain doesn't overwhelm my thinking. I hope you find this a good place to visit.
                  1979 spinal issues, 1993 lumbar microdisectomy L3-4, 1996 360 3 level lumbar fusion L2-5, 1999 open thoractomy fusion T8-9,
                  2002 C3-7 herniations and T4-7 herniations, 2004 total disability, a new limited life

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                    #10
                    Hi and welcome RustyBonz! You must be CSRS. :) I, too, am a retired fed but like Mark retired at age 48 (VERA/VSIP). Try to hang in until 55; I certainly wanted to but couldn't. Anyway, I don't miss rolling out of bed at 5:00 am at all! :) You will find everyone here very helpful. So, welcome and I hope you enjoy this site as much as I have.
                    C3/C4 ACDF - 2004, C5/C6 ACDF - 2006
                    L5/S1 - Facet Degeneration
                    Lumbar Facet Rhizotomy L4, L5, S1 (left side) 2007
                    Retired - DOD/Defense Finance & Acctg/IT - 2005

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                      #11
                      Welcome RustyBonz!
                      I got "retired" at 42 and still have long hours when I can't sleep. I still do the things I enjoy, just a lot slower! This is a good place with nice, intelligent people who get the pain thing.
                      If no pain, no gain is true, where is everything I should have gained?
                      DDD, Fibro, CFS, pain for 20 years. ADR c 5/6 Feb. 2018 doing well.
                      Back to pain management, fibromyalgia getting worse.

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                        #12
                        Welcome Mr Bonz,
                        I don't get to post as much as I should, but wanted to welcome you here. I also had to stop working sooner than I wanted to at 43. I'm now 60 and still wake up at 5:45 am. just like I did when I was working.
                        Think not that you are limited because of what you cannot do, but think instead of all you have, the talents God has given you. " D. De Haan "

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                          #13
                          Hi Rusty...sorry I did not see this sooner. Welcome to the site. Lots of really nice people and good advice. I am a few yrs older than you and don't do facebook or twitter either. Lots of factors in the retire early scenario but hope you can do it if that is what you want. I had to leave work in my 40's due to ill health and was blessed with get disability from my employer. I was dx'ed with Lyme Disease in the 90's and no amount of treatment made me better so I was left with alot of neuropathies and arthritis and pain issues that are chronic. But, as you will see here, I am not alone...we all have our cross to bear and considering, I am doing
                          well.

                          If you want to bounce your pros and cons for retiring early off of the good folks here, just put OFF TOPIC and you want to discuss retirement and lots of folks will chime in. I hope the decision is happy one for you.

                          What are the specifics of your pain/discomfort?...if you feel like sharing.
                          Take care, Diandra

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                            #14
                            Welcome to the forum, Rusty. I know what you mean about feeling lonely and desperate due to pain. I'm younger than you, and have been dealing with chronic migraines for my entire adult life. A couple of years ago, my migraines went constant and I now can't have much of a normal life at all. My pain meds help a lot, though. Without meds, my pain would be excruciating.

                            Chronic pain is lonely because those who don't have it just don't understand how limiting pain can be. That's why I like this forum. I've posted here for years.

                            It wasn't that long ago that I felt really "desperate" for pain relief. I'd been suffering severe migraines for years, but my neurologist really wasn't helping me very much. A few years ago I found a great pain management doctor. Now at least I don't have to suffer the way I used to. I'll never understand why non-PM doctors make their patients suffer so much.

                            Welcome!

                            Eva

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                              #15
                              Welcome to the forum. Hope you are doing well.
                              Blessings
                              Alex44
                              Skypilot

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