From lor

[Buttons2]

Lor, you just hang in there. John will put his dad first since he's in the hospital. we have figured out how attached he has always been to his father.

well now it's YOU that needs help. maybe your doctor could give him a good talking to? or the kids?

Jingle,glad you got away from the creep!

men get scared when they cannot control everything. and yes they are big babies in many ways. however there are some good guys out there so can't just hate an entire species based on bad experiences can we?

I'm getting a big kick out of the fact that more women are choosing not to get married these days. good for them! and don't even need a male to become a parent nowadays. my how times have changed.

PS,Lor been wondering if Steve & his GF moved into the house? also did all that cleaning contribute to you ending up in the hospital? well now it's time for you to get some of the TLC you so deserve!

[Barque]

Well, everyone forms opinions about things based on their own experiences, it's only logical. I can't base my opinions on men and marriage from others experiences, I am not them. I don't live someone else's life, I live mine and I am the only one that has actually lived it and know all the facts.

Sorry, I just don't buy the concept of not blaming all men for the way some are. All men have faults, it's just finding the combinations of faults that crush women evenntually into a fine powder. They all will do it given the right set of circumstances.

[lor]

Buttons, Why do you ask about Steve & GF moving in? What did I say to make you think that? Just courios(sp) -- Sure John would put his dad first. I was just meaning that he sorta thinks I'm a kid & also no longer know much at all. Yes I forgot some things but just tell me once or twice, then I'll remember. Often soon as he/the person says "wrong" I say to myself "oh yeah it goes this way. I can't beieve I could do that. I learned that in kindergarten". You don't have to KEEP telling me.

[Buttons2]

Lor, if you go back some pages on the Emotional Support forum you will find where we were giving advice on how to clean the house Steve was going to rent.

you asked about cleaning products & safety. we were concerned you were taking on too much.

then you let us know Steve's GF was also going to move into the house & we suggested THEY do the cleaning.

that's the last we heard from you. you just went missing which wasn't like you at all since you posted everyday.

I hope this helps you to understand!

and I only knew you from Emotional Support. I've noticed you haven't posted there since coming back. now with the new format I see your posts in Chit Chat or Epilepsy so I catch up with you on those forums.

I think you are doing very well Lor! it will take time for your brain to function like you want. and since so many of us have brain fog or memory issues anyways-we understand!

PS I'm not computer savy or I'd pull up the thread I mentioned-maybe someone could do it for you? (and with my brain it might even be on Chit Chat?)

[lor]

Buttons, Steve & his GF were cleaning John's sister's fatherinlaws' house . John's sister doesn't live here so they were helping her. The man doesn't have any family nere. The kids were doing the cleaning cause they were told they could have anything in the house. (The man died @ the house is empty). Steve took a dresser @ a few things. John & I are taking the couch & 2 chairs. When cleaning the kids found out that you non't mix CLR and bleach --- it put them both in the hosp. ( toxic fumes)

[lor]

jingle, You don't talk too much.

I guess I led you to think John always yells. I was just saying he's too quick to help but I want to do it myself, how else can I relearn? He just yells once & awhile, I can tell that he, is frustrated that did 'it' wrong again. As a matter of fact, I think he's great. He would take off work early to come visit (when I got a little better, we would wak down to their "living room" & work on a puzzle (I like puzzles). He would stay through dinner & paid for a chance to eat 'dogfood'. (I bet meals in all rehab places are just as bad. Worse than Hambuger Helper every day. I got to eat it for two months. LOL)