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    I saw you today!

    This morning, I was leaving the ocean after the leg and hips announced they were done and got very spastic. I spotted a 60 something woman in a beach wheelchair with a young man who pushed her to their "spot". I saw something on her ankle and recognized it as a foot drop AFO appliance, but thought, maybe it was a bandage

    Meid you break your ankle?
    Her: no. I have MS.
    Me: me too!
    Her: I've had it for 20 years
    Slader: Me too!

    So, I told her I would like to put her on my board and let her feel the water. Her left leg is paralyzed, right is not good, but her arms are great. She had her excuses lined up,about how cold the ocean would be etc. and how she swims a very warm pool.

    Me: You gotta say yes to more things. (Then, taking a chance said,)" God put me in your path today. You can't say no to God! Let's do this! You won't feel cold because you will be so adrenalized.

    Her: I'd like to sit on the board
    Me: No, that will break the board. You are going to lie down on it.

    She wanted to lie on her back, not stomache, so I let that be my one concession.

    Well, Her son then rolled her into the ocean and then lifted her out of the chair and we struggled but placed her on the board. She marveled that the water wasn't cold :) The chair started to float away.

    Her son had run to the beach to get his phone to take pictures of it all, leaving me alone with the woman (yikes).

    A local surfer dude spotted it happening and said, "Do you need help?" And he came and corralled the wheelchair and helped maneuver her so she wouldn't slide off the board.... My friend then saw it happening and came and helped hold the board too as we gently got her back into the chair. She offered her board which is wider, but I think the woman had more excitement than she could contain for the day!

    Her:So, you all come every Saturday
    Me: And often Sunday's too.
    Her: Maybe I'd like to do that again

    #2
    Great! You are brave! She is brave!!
    ANN
    There comes a time when silence is betrayal.- MLK

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      #3
      A WONDERFUL series of events! I know it lifted both your spirits. I hope she returns to do it again!
      "Given the millions of billions of Earth-like planets, life elsewhere in the Universe without a doubt, does exist."

      Albert Einstein

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        #4
        Yes! I told her she was courageous and that she is a Wounded Warrior. I think it also meant A LOT to her son to be able to do this.

        I thought of all youse guys here when doing it :)

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          #5
          You deserve one BIG GIANT HUG! Took guts from both of you. Bless you.

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            #6
            I think this proofs to all, we are more then just a disease,, I loved how everyone banded together,,
            " Don't outsmart your common sense"

            Peg

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              #7
              BBS, what a wonderful story, and what a wonderful thing to do for someone who realized you could relate to what was wrong with her.

              You both were so courageous. Bless you both!
              Virginia

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                #8
                Whoopee ride those wave ,,!!
                Love, Sally


                "The best way out is always through". Robert Frost






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                  #9
                  Sounds as if this must have been one truly great experience for all concerned!
                  SPMS diagnosed 1980. Avonex 2001-2004. Copaxone 2006-2009. Glatopa (glatiramer acetate = Copaxone) 12/20 - 3/19/24.

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                    #10
                    Yes, it was equally a blessing for all concerned. People in wheel chairs are often treated as though invisible. It was a huge experience for her and her son that she was the STAR of the show.

                    She asked me, "do you know these people?" And I said, "everyone here knows everyone. We are all aware of each other." This was hard for her to wrap her mind around, but I think she was just too stunned to digest it all.

                    Maybe she will start to say, "yes" more....

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                      #11
                      Right ON! And remember- most people can float even with weird legs.

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                        #12
                        Hey Renee!!!!!
                        Love, Sally


                        "The best way out is always through". Robert Frost






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                          #13
                          What a sweet story! Thanks for sharing! Reminds me of when I was younger and people pushed me to try new things. I know how you felt when you were left alone with the woman. I had the same feeling when I was left alone with my teacher after his stroke and I'm like "I'm alone with him and I can't physically help him if the symptoms get bad…YIKES! HELP!" Luckily he knew what to do. I also know that spastic "done" feeling like you hit a wall.
                          Mild Spastic Diplegia Cerebral Palsy and bad proprioception.
                          My website for my original short films! http://cripvideoproductions.com/astrokeofendurance.php

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                            #14
                            ((((((BBS1951)))))) ~

                            Thank you so much for sharing this inspiring experience! Clearly there is a reason why you encountered each other, and why others were involved. What an incredible opportunity for learning, bonding, and LIVING!

                            I hope that this turns into a regular outing for her, and that it opens up more avenues for her to say, "Yes!"

                            And you are so right about people, who use wheelchairs, being treated as invisible. Thank you for seeing this woman and reaching out to her!

                            Blessings upon you all ~

                            Love & Light,

                            Rose
                            Mom to Jon, 49, & Michael, 32, born with an undiagnosed progressive neuromuscular disease. Angel Michael received his wings in 2003. Angel Jon received his wings in 2019. In 2020, Jim, their Dad, joined them.

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