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    Re-Introduction

    I know it's been awhile since I've posted here....and trust me, I don't intend to become all that active...but since I have posted in the last couple of days I thought a brief re-introduction might be in order.

    I am 64 years old. I've had MS for 28 years...probably longer, but it was diagnosed 28 years ago. I've experienced serious exacerbations in the past, and have used canes, walkers, four-arm crutches and wheelchairs throughout that period. For the last 12 years or so I have used a wheelchair full-time for mobility.

    My professional career, what I've done for a living for the last 35 years -- before I was diagnosed with MS -- has been as a disabilities advocate and consultant, both for-pay and, in the last 15 years or so, for free. Part of my early work was to offer my opinions about what a federal law requiring equal access for persons with disabilities would look like -- the law that became the ADA. As an advocate for persons with disabilities I have been to court, been to administrative hearings, been to too-many-to-count human service meetings, fought with people "in charge" to get them to do what is required by law -- in other words advocated for persons with disabilities long before I suspect some folks here have even been alive.

    So I'm not "blowing smoke" when I express my opinion about how disability law works, or doesn't work. I'm not guessing about issues around disability, or offering advice about "how it should be", but rather, "how it is". I'm not insensitive to persons with disabilities -- I'm one myself, have had numerous doors shut in my face, both literally and figuratively, I've worked with others with disabilities through all sorts of disability related issues, everything from housing disputes to social security issues, to medical issues to access issues.

    I have been treated with ACTH in my early years of having MS, moved to steroids, and then when it became available was on Betaseron for many many years. I quit just recently, about a year ago, when it was evident that my MS hadn't changed significantly for years -- I cannot walk, can only stand briefly to transfer, but it's been that way for years.

    I'm opinionated -- and sometimes right. I'm blunt. I don't suffer fools. I don't "do pity". When someone asks a question and I think I know the answer, I respond with the answer, not with a "oh, you poor dear, how mistreated you are!" kind of response.

    Which is why Parsi's description of me... blunt .. seems appropriate. So I'll try to remember to sign off as BluntCat.
    ...I am not a doctor nor medical professional, and don't pretend to be one, here... :o

    #2
    We love your bluntness, Cat. I'm not making that up. I've "heard" it "said" many times on BT. But we know that not everyone appreciates it. ;)

    I was completely unaware of your role as disabilities and advocate and consultant. I do know you like to only give correct advice.

    Basically my advice had been from personal experience. I usually don't even try to give that anymore because I don't trust my memory most times. And so many things have changed and new treatments have emerged.

    [That's a really wierd "wink" smiley! I would never has guessed.]
    Last edited by Parsi; 10-09-2011, 07:09 AM.

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      #3
      Hi Cat there certainly nothing wrong with "telling it like it is" . I make a close friend here at BT who, at the most darkest period of my MS did just that and if it wasn't for her doing just that.......... Anyway I appreciate you doing just that! There is a difference in commiserating and feeling sorry for someone.

      I spent a number of years in the physical plant dept of a couple government agency's and I had a person that was a disability advocate that I called on to advise me on renovations. I would argue different points as being overkill (I wasnt disabled ) but usually went with her recommendations. I have found that most architects do not have any idea what ADA consists of. We have had a couple of government entities that have said WE don't have to comply and it usually takes about a year and they spend 3 times as much to do-over than if they would have just asked someone first. Sigh your tax dollars at work.

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        #4
        You are much more to us, than just an ole bluntcat. I'll get back to ya on this..

        We love ya girl. Stay well.
        Love, Sally


        "The best way out is always through". Robert Frost






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          #5
          Miss BluntCat,, you always were a good friend to me,, I even got to meet ya,, glad your back in the saddle again,,
          " Don't outsmart your common sense"

          Peg

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            #6
            Can it Be? A Voice of Reason has Returned?

            Hello Cat!

            It has been a long time for both of us and I can see by your most sensitive post you have mellowed considerably.........NOT! And I love you because of who you are.

            I too believe more people need to be told what they "should" hear vs. what they "want" to hear for their own good. I do not play politically correct in any form. Just because people vote something in or a majority think so, does not change wrong to accepted and right. Many people, especially those with chronic illness and disability, need to learn to put their big girl and boy pants on, take full responsibility for their own life and get out of this bull of victim mentality. Happiness in life is a choice regardless the circumstances. Look for the crappy side of life and every situation one is guaranteed to find it every time. If you're going to spend precious energy looking for something why not the good and be grateful?

            Since last we spoke I have written a book, initially for my children and grandchildren to know more about me after I'm gone. It took on a life of its own and is now published receiving very surprising reviews on the positive impact received by the readers.

            Yea! I agree with you Cat and don't get active or involved in the forums. Why share your knowledge and experience with those just starting the journey of diagnosis, trying to understand their rights under ADA, needing advice on whatever to improve their lifes? Why spend time doing that Cat, like, what's in it for you, right?

            Please note to all readers. The previous paragraph is NOT at all like CAT and we are all blessed for it. She was there for me from my very beginning in the early 2000s and I am thrilled she would consider just stopping by once-in-a-while to share her opinion and advice. You are an "AWESOME" person Cat and I will fight to the death anyone who says otherwise. I would even go so far as to say "BluntCat" doesn't do you justice. Something more along the lines of, "SledgehammerCat" would cover it more accurately.

            I was thrilled to see you signed in my friend. It has been too long and many things have changed. "WELCOME BACK!"
            NeuroNixed Craig
            Living Life On My Terms
            No Excuses No Regrets
            Richmond, VA, USA

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              #7
              Hi Cat

              Abby
              Stand for something or you will fall for anything

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                #8
                Hi Cat,
                Glad to see you back!!!!!

                Ady :)

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                  #9
                  Hi Cat Dancer, having been around since early 2001 and lurking in late 2000, I am well aware of the straightforward way in which you approach questions and answers. I have a real appreciation for that, as I think deep down most of us want the truth as others see it. You have had a lot of experience along lines that some others of us have not, and so I am hoping you will stick around and help us out, or speak up when you think we are going down the wrong path.

                  We can certainly use your no-nonsense approach to things as many of us are struggling. As I recall there is also a lot of medical stuff that you knew back then, so please and share with us.

                  Virginia
                  Virginia

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                    #10
                    i am a fan of cat. have missed a voice of reason.

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                      #11
                      :angel:Good to see that name again: Cat Dancer!

                      Mariel
                      Last edited by Mariel; 10-13-2011, 07:43 PM.

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                        #12
                        Nice! Great to have you around, dear one!!

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                          #13
                          Hey there BluntCat
                          It's been a while, nice to see you on the board Cat.
                          Be blunt be sharp, just keep being Cat Dancer
                          soul

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                            #14
                            Where the *********** did you go??
                            Love, Sally


                            "The best way out is always through". Robert Frost






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                              #15
                              I've been here since 2001 and never knew your bio appreciated you sharing it with us. I often wondered why "so matter of fact" and now I know. Thank you.

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